Turns out there's a pattern to friendship . I thought long and hard about every adult friendship I’ve made and realized there’s a pattern. I’ve organized it into 10 steps to help people who are yearning for adult friendships but don’t know where to start. If you're unwilling to be a villager, you can't expect a village. Friendships don’t just miraculously appear in our living rooms (unfortunately...wouldn’t that be nice?). Now that we’re adults with limited time, we have to be intentional about